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Got in a car accident yesterday…

by J. Money on Wednesday, May 22, 2013

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You know those movies which show you what your life would look like if you had chosen a different path? Well, yesterday morning I chose the wrong one quite literally, and ended up smacking right into a brand new car as it cut across my lane without looking. Ugh…

All of us are safe and sound and no one hurt at all (or else I wouldn’t be able to blog this right now, haha),  but nonetheless it shook us up a bit. And luckily the person I hit freely admitted she was in a rush and wasn’t paying attention when she made the turn so she agreed it was her fault.

We’ll see if that story translates okay to her insurance company (Progressive), but I’d like to think she’s a good person :) Turns out it was also her first crash of her life (she was maybe pushing 19), so a good way to learn the hard way I suppose… at least she wasn’t texting and driving!! Especially with a little kid in the car! :(

SOOoooo…. now we wait and see how the insurance companies play with each other. I relayed all my info to USAA who will keep everything on file in case it’s needed later (they recorded parts of our call for their archives which was pretty cool), but if all goes as planned I’ll get word from Progressive on how we go from there. And hopefully that it doesn’t touch my insurance at all – the way it should be when the party isn’t at fault.

The whole thing was pretty surreal, especially since I avoided what I thought would be a crash only 60 seconds earlier (guess it was meant to be?), and whenever that happens I tend to get into duper deep thought and play the “what if” game.

  • What if one of us got killed?
  • What if one of us didn’t have any insurance?
  • What if I just waited TWO more seconds before getting into my car??
  • Why didn’t I just go down the OTHER street instead of this one?
  • Am I living my life as best I can right now???
  • Is there a potential for me to get sued and lose all my savings and future savings for years and years to come??? (That what if was courtesy of USAA, btw, when they advised I may want to look into “Umbrella insurance” after seeing all my financials I have with them :) Apparently it’s pretty cheap (couple hundred a year?) and can cover you for millions of dollars once all other insurances/etc tap out. So like if someone got seriously injured in today’s crash and my car insurance ran out at $300,000, then the umbrella one would kick in and cover the rest in a crazy situation. I’ll be checking on that in the near future, you can bet on that…)

A little blown out of proportion considering there was minor damage to our cars (well, at least mine as you can see in that picture above – hers was banged up a bit more since I rammed right into her side door there), but nonetheless that’s how the brain works. I was due for a crash any day anyways – I’ve been getting in them every 4 years like clockwork, so it’s kinda expected now :) I swear I’m a good driver though!

HAH! The person I hit just texted me… let’s see here…. awww, check it out:

Thank you for being calm about the whole accident this morning, I am truly sorry. I called insurance company and everything. God bless you.

So sweet!! If only everyone could be like that afterwards :) One of my first ones involved a guy who rear ended me at a stoplight at 2 am, and then got out and started swearing at me up and down as if it were MY fault he drank 10 too many beers that night, haha… I was at a red light – completely stopped – minding my own business! And we were the only cars around in like a 5 mile radius??? What an idiot… And an even bigger one when he decided to pick a fight with the cop who showed up on the scene who then promptly arrested him and took him on a nice trip back to the station ;) You never argue with the police – that’s rule #2. After #1: Never DRINK AND DRIVE.

Boy, what a day… I love it that technology makes this stuff easier too - like how we both took pictures of our insurance cards and then texted them to each other instead of writing it all down like it used to be done :) That accomplishes three things off the bat:

  1. You get the other person’s number, which has to be accurate since you’re standing next to each other waiting to see the pictures show up!
  2. You don’t mess up any of the numbers/spelling of the names/etc
  3. And more importantly, it’s quick and easy. Especially when your mind is racing a mile a minute and you’re trying to remember everything amidst a bundle of nerves.

Other things to do which I *completely* forgot:

  • Call the police to report the crash. I’m not sure if you have to do this with ALL accidents, or just the serious/problematic ones, but either way it’s probably a good thing to do anyways.
  • Get the driver’s licenses of everyone involved. A) to make sure they are who they say they are, and B) to get their address and license plate number – if it’s on there. If not, snap a pic of that too while you’re there doing the insurance card. I actually meant to do this but then forgot!
  • Get the names and numbers of any witnesses that were kind enough to stop and check in with you after the crash. We had two of these good Samaritans even though we didn’t record their info (again – forgot! so hard to do when you’re processing the shock and what’s going on, jeez…)

There’s probably more to do there, but y’all get the point. Just get as much info as you can while there, and usually it’ll all work out just fine. The most important thing is when no one’s hurt!!

So that was my day yesterday – how about you? :) Any one else get in any crashes, either with cars or their finances? Haha… I’ll let you know if anything turns out awry over here, but for now I’m counting my blessings and just happy to be alive and able to talk with you all today.

Life is good, my friends. We gotta do our best to appreciate it!

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PS: Here’s what my caddy now looks like with my tape “fix”, haha… Contemplating leaving it that way too depending on the size of the check. If it works, it works, right? ;)

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Back To Living Off One Salary Again! (Womp Womp)

by J. Money on Tuesday, May 21, 2013

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The Mrs. has officially ended her part-time job to start on her dissertation, so we’re back to a one salary household again! After a solid 7 months of bringing home an extra $1,600 a month too – yikes… This will be our 2nd time in a year living off one paycheck! And I’m not gonna lie – I’m going to miss those sexy little greenbacks. They were so cute! ;)

But with many important things in life, you often have to cut something out in order to advance into other, brighter, areas. And right now that means no distractions whatsoever for an entire year, or however long it takes to get that paper done. It could be 12 months, it could be 18 months, or it could be 16.3578 years, who  knows. Either way, the wifey shall not be taking on anything extra outside of paper writing which means no dinero for the J. Dinero household (Ya see what I did there?)

Despite the major con of losing money, however, there are some niceties that come with this too:

  • I get a new office mate! We’ll both be working at home all year long now, which I suspect will go 80% well, and 20% we-want-to-kill-each-other,  haha… But isn’t that how all co-workers operate? ;)
  • She’ll be poised to land a decent job once finished. It may be a teaching one with not-so-stellar paychecks, but regardless she’ll be in a field she absolutely enjoys and back to the work force again. It’s already been over 4 years since she “dropped out” to pursue this PHD – which means we’ve been pretty good surviving off less money now that I think about it… Go us!
  • No commuting and no parking nightmares. The pros to researching/writing at home!

And I’m sure a ton of other things too that she’d tell us if I weren’t so lazy and got off this chair to ask her ;) As for the finance aspects to it all though (the reason you’re on this blog reading!), we’re losing money in the near term for much MORE money in the long term. Which is something I think any of us would take if we had the option and/or motivation/skills/energy, right?

So the pressure’s on! Not only being dependent on one person’s income going forward, but a person who’s also SELF-EMPLOYED, haha… and who’s about to spend thousands updating their old house and moving into new one etc/etc. If that doesn’t scream security I don’t know what does ;)

But that’s the point of tracking all this stuff like we nerdly do – to be prepared for what the future holds. The goods, the bads, and the un-sexy. It’s not always going to be peaches and cream (nor will we be completely on our game at all times), but the more we pay attention and make tweaks, the better we’ll be when life comes a knockin’. You want to be answering that door well dressed and ready to party!

So I’m off to go find my leather rock star pants and shake on over to the next item on our moving-out list: Figuring out health insurance, ugh… Something tells me it’s not going to be as easy as driving over the state lines… I’m sure I’ll be back to rant about this in no time ;)

In the meantime though, think about your current setup and what you’d do if your income got cut in half or even by, say, 10-15%. How would your budget handle it? Would you be up a creek or still sitting pretty? I pray it doesn’t happen to any of you, of course, but we all know this life can get pretty crazy… Best to be prepared like a Boy Scout. Or even better, a Budget Scout ;)

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(Photo by Jack Parrott)

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We’ve Got Our First Millionaire In The Club!

by J. Money on Monday, May 20, 2013

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Hot dogs! Over 5 years ago we started our awesome Millionaire Club and listed everything out we needed to accomplish to get there, and today we have our first member who’s officially crossed it! Give a round of applause to BigChrisB – way to go, man!

Here was his original submission from January 25, 2011 as member #62 (we now have 105 people pledging to reach a million). Do you remember what yours looked like if you’re one of the members from back then?

I’ve decided to join the crowd, and make my own millionaire pledge. I’m already past $600,000, so don’t have too far to go. Until I achieve this goal, I pledge to:

1. Pay off my business loan by Feb 2012 (~$4,000/month)
2. Contribute the maximum ($25,000/yr) to my superannuation fund
3. Pay all dividends from listed investments onto my margin loan
4. Pay the dividend component of my pay ($2,700/month after tax) either into my margin loan, or into my investment company.
5. Pay all periodic profit dividends from my employer into my investment company.

Doing this, without any return on investment, I will be a millionaire by January 2014, or three years time. If my investments return as expected (5% capital gain on listed stocks, 12% on private company), I will be a millionaire by October 2012. Check back and see if I can do it!

And here’s his follow up post too, if you want to read how he reached it: I’m a Millionaire! We’ll see if the first million is, indeed, harder to achieve than the second :)

Seeing all this got me thinking about my own millionaire goals from back in the day too, and what – if any – I’m still working on. I’m ashamed to say I haven’t really looked at that post since I last updated it all those years ago when I got fired, other than to add new members to the list, but of course I have been paying attention to my money and what not. As evidence in my monthly net worth updates – even if they’re not talking about the ultimate goal of hitting $1 Mil.

What’s crazier though is that I have never written a follow up post to the original Millionaire Club idea after all these years! How lame is that?? How are we supposed to motivate each other here if we rarely talk about it? We gotta change that!

So today – 5 years and almost 1 month to the original date of posting - we shall start doing Millionaire Club follow ups going forward. It may not be every week or every month for that matter, but whenever the mood strikes we will, indeed, hold ourselves accountable and welcome the new members to the club. Perhaps some others have also hit it and we were too busy to notice? :(

Okay, so step #1: Revisit our current millionaire plan.

Here’s what I had on Day #1:

  1. Max out my 401(k) –> $16,500 invested | $16,500 matched!
  2. Save/invest 1/2 of all future bonuses –> $2,500
  3. Max out my Roth IRA –> $5,000 invested
  4. Sell unwanted stuff on Craigslist –> $500 est.

Banking approximately $41,000/year towards hitting the goal, making me a millionaire by the time I hit 43 (we used CNN’s millionaire calculator  setting the growth % conservatively at 6%, and stripping out inflation since it would *still* be a million dollars regardless of what a million means by then).

Then when I got laid off a couple years later, I went back and updated this list to reflect the following, more achievable goals, at that time. Which is always important to do or what’s the point in even thinking about it all?:

  1. Max out my SEP Ira –> $15,000 invested
  2. Max out my Roth IRA –>$5,000 invested
  3. Continue living more minimalistically –> $3,000 est.
  4. Sell unwanted stuff on Craigslist –> $500 est.

Putting me at $23,500/year and making me a millionaire by the time I’m 45. So a set back of 2 years from the change of plans, but only after a couple of years of hitting the goals earlier which helped to close the gap.

Step #2: Update our current millionaire plan!

It’s now been a good 2 and 1/2 years since that last day of goal updating, so we need to review and make sure we’re up to date again if we want to stay on track. Which we most definitely do :)

I may have been neglecting these Club posts, but I can assure you I’ve done nothing but continue dreaming and hustling to reach those extra 0′s at the end that number! I’m okay with being a Thousand Dollar Baller for the time being, and even a Thousandaire, but I’m not gonna start becoming complacent anytime soon, that’s for sure. I’ve got dreams, my friends…

So here’s what our to-do list looks like NOW:

  1. Max out my SEP Ira –> $22,000 invested
  2. Max out my Roth IRA –>$5,500 invested
  3. Max out my wife’s Roth IRA –> $5,500 invested

And that’s it. Yeah I’ll be working on living more minimalistically still, and selling stuff on Craigslist, etc, etc, but I’m not gonna spend the time tracking it and holding myself accountable. Same with other things that will pop up throughout the years like a new business opportunity or awesome stock that’s taking off and what not. These three items above are the sole focus of all my saving/investing which I’ll be working towards no matter what’s going on around me. And I think that’s more than enough to bite off in a single year :)

Keeping this going will give us a total of $33,000/year socked away, making us a millionaire earlier on again at the age of 42 (9 years and 4 months from now). Not including any non-income producing assets either, like a house, cars, etc which the millionaire calculator doesn’t factor in. I guess they want you to hit a million based on investments only?

And notice I say “WE” here instead of “I” since our money has been tied together officially now for the past couple of years. It took us a while, but we eventually merged everything to simplify and make our lives easier – even though we still have a small side fund each which we can do as we please with. This makes it harder to compare our numbers with other, strictly single, people out there, but that’s not really the point of all this to us. We’re in a competition here with *ourselves*, not others!

What all this means to YOU?

Well, I dunno – that’s a question for yourself :) I’d love it if you wanted to join us here and become an official “member,” but it’s totally dependent on what you can get out of this stuff and if it helps.

For me, I like seeing stuff written down and narrowing in on what the REAL goal is here with tracking all these numbers – especially since having a blog makes it easy to go back in time and review! – but I know it’s not for everyone. A million dollars is a big scary number, so maybe it’s better to start out at $100,000 and work your way up? Or even $500,000?

Regardless, the takeaway here is to have some goals – any goals – and then do your best to follow through on them. The simpler/more accountable you can make them, the better. Who needs more hassle in their life??

Welcoming the latest members to our club!

Here are the most recent people who have joined our sexy secret society. Congrats on putting it all down on paper, guys! That’s a good first step!

And with that, we shall wrap up our first update :) If anyone else wants to join us, please do! Just drop a comment along with your list in the comments on our club page and I’ll add you to the list. We’ve got 105 members so far who may or may not be paying attention anymore, haha… (again, it’s been 5 years since originally posting it!) but the dream is still very much alive and well for most people. It’s just a matter of committing to it and taking action!!

So give it some thought today and see what comes of it… you can always go back to the old normal you if you ever get bored ;) See the rest of you on the beach!

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We Found a Place! We Found a Place!

May 17, 2013
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Opah! Party time! We’re finally getting outta here!! ;) MAN I can’t tell you how excited we are… 5+ years in a row living in the same place is liable to give any A.D.D./Military folk a stomach ache. It’s time for brighter and greener pastures – woo! And we actually found a home that satisfies BOTH of our major wants, which is great. All the . . .

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Side Hustle Series: I’m a Human Guinea Pig

May 16, 2013
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(Guest Post by Emily as part of our Side Hustle Series) I didn’t have much of a choice about becoming a guinea pig for medical research, but maybe that was the intention of my employer? The research institute I worked at created a ready supply of healthy volunteers for its ongoing clinical trials and studies by paying us trainees less than the living wage in . . .

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Box of Books Giveaway: Round II

May 15, 2013
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Okay, here we go – round two of giving away my finance books! Hopefully you or someone you know can use them :) If not, pick the ones out you want and then donate/sell the rest! And if you missed yesterday’s awesome shelf clearing, be sure to go back and check it out once you’re done entering this giveaway here today… Here’s what’s in Box . . .

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Box of Books Giveaway: Round 1

May 14, 2013
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I’m getting better and better about getting rid of stuff! This whole moving thing has really sparked some fire under me, and I’m throwing away stuff left and right – even stuff I like! :) (Well, not *throwing away*, but selling stuff and donating things to nab those tax write-offs/etc…) One pile I cannot easily give up, however, is my bookshelves full of finance and . . .

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My New Non-Spending Tracker!

May 13, 2013
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I did something over the weekend I was pretty proud of myself for: I refrained from buying two things that I really REALLY wanted to take home with me. One was an oil painting with a pretty kick-ass frame (alone was worth the $20 price tag), and the other a hand-painted side table from Peru that had all kinds of awesome designs on it. That . . .

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Fun Facts About Money (And Reading)

May 10, 2013

Growing up my grandpa always used to say “the best way to learn, is to read.” And while I didn’t really listen to him way back then (unless you count photo books? ;)), I’ll admit he was on to something there. Only I’ve come to think of it as, “the best way to learn, is to read SOMETHING THAT INTERESTS YOU!” That probably sounds like . . .

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