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Would You Rather…

by J. Money on Friday, January 27, 2012

Would you rather...Man, it’s been forever since we last did one of these! Have you been missing them like I have?  Remember our last one?  Haha… “Would you rather be RICH 100 years ago, or Average now?” – they’re always entertaining ;)  Even if there’s no real point to them other than having fun (but that’s what Fridays are for, yo!).

So let’s continue the tradition, and see what your pretty little brains would prefer today… Here’s our next question in the series:  Would you rather…

Win $15,000 in dollar bills, or win $20,000 in quarters? (And you can’t exchange any of it or deposit it at the bank!  You MUST use it for spending in person only.)

Haha… changes everything huh? ;)  Initially I thought I’d go for the $20k in change, but man – do you know how HEAVY that would be?  Carrying it all around with you to lunch or the grocery store, or even paying gas with?  It would get pretty hard.  And also pretty irritating – you’d have to literally count it all out *every time* you went to pay for something!  And the more you need, the more that line behind you backs up and people wonder what the hell your problem is for handing over hundreds of quarters, haha… is the additional $5k really worth the headache?

On the other hand, thousands of dollars in $1 bills ain’t that fancy either.  Though MUCH more do-able, of course, and at the end of the day it’s all still FREE money.  And maybe you’d get lucky enough to find one of those treasure hunt dollars too! Haha… that would be awesome.  The only thing that really sucks w/ either choice here is that you can’t use any of it online for anything.  No paying buying things off Amazon, no paying bills unless you can physically walk into the places and pay cash, and no saving it all in the bank.  You can ONLY use it to pay for things in person. (These are my rules, buster – no going around them! ;))

Which do you think you’d pick?  The $20k in coins or the $15k in bills? I’m gonna finalize my decision and go ahead and take my chances with the quarters. I know I’ll regret it half-way through (and be known as the “quarter man” around town), but I just can’t lose out on that free $5,000!  Worst case I’ll just have free parking for the rest of my long and sexy life ;)  I don’t have a problem with that!

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PS: Here are some others we’ve contemplated before:
- Would you rather… have $5 million dollars -OR- the ability to teleport?
- Would you rather… Keep the next year of your life, as-is -OR- lose a year but get $100,000?
- Would you… for $15,000 in cash, give up sex for a whole entire year?!

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Weekly Roundup: Lies, Pennies and Stupid Habits

by J. Money on Friday, January 27, 2012

Happy Friday debt killers!  Here’s a handful of my fave reads from around the web this week – got some good ones in there for ya (and some very *interesting* ones too, specifically #10 down there ;)).  Enjoy! Don’t spend too many Benjamins this weekend…

  1. The Negative of Wealth @ Simple Island Living
  2. Ways to Make Money Map [image] @ Pro blogger
  3. The Struggle @ Nate St. Pierre (Not really $$ related)
  4. The Charity Water Story [video] @ Charity Water (INSPIRING!!)
  5. Lies, Lies, and More Lies About Money @ DINKS Finance
  6. Heads Up: The Unemployed Still Get Taxed @ Savvy Sugar
  7. Making Pennies into Millions [video] @ Good Financial Cents
  8. The 5 Stupidest Habits You Develop Growing Up Poor @ Cracked
  9. Un-Shopping: Tips for Using What You Already Own @ Apartment Therapy
  10. Woman with Two Vaginas Gets $1 MILLION Porn Offer @ TMZ (Umm… Woah.)

 

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On Taking Financial Risks: Living On The Road

by J. Money on Thursday, January 26, 2012

girls be trippin - anne dorko

(Guest Post by Anne Dorko, who’s finally going for her dreams and sharing the dirty details with us!)

You know all those crazy adventures you imagined as a kid? They were so awesome. Then you become an adult. Things like, oh, I don’t know… an overwhelming lack of time and money get in the way of ever experiencing the adventures you once thought you’d have. There are bills and responsibilities. Ick. Ugh. Blah. Meh. But you do what you must.

Every time you think of those dreams, you say “Someday day I’ll do that. As soon as I’m done with this other part of my life.” Guess what. There is never a time when those adventures make sense in the real world. Something is always in the way. Maybe your career. Maybe the timing. Maybe a general lack of money. Maybe something else.

What would happen if you decided to take a risk?

I decided I wanted to find out. The smart move would be to keep the career job, pay off the rest of my debts, and wait before launching off into the type of adventure that I’ve always wanted to have. But I’ve decided that I’d rather live that adventure… I want to do something worth talking about, rather than wait around for silly things like money or the right timing. The right timing may never come.

My Adventure (is going to be awesome)

By best friend and I are going to travel around the USA in my car, living and working from the road, under the name, wait for it… “Girls Be Trippin.”  (Cause we’re both girls. Road trippin’ around. Duh.) We’re taking my Ford Focus, and we plan to go couch surfing – with friends and relatives, but also by using CouchSurfing.org.

Unfortunately… while our lodging may mostly be free, the financial outlook is not looking good from the outside in. I recently decided to get a travel friendly computer (the MacBook Air). The computer is awesome. The price wasn’t. Which means, I went from no credit card debt, to a little extra (although I did pay for some of it in cash).

Oh, and I also quit my job just a little while back. And I have an auto loan on my car (thankfully I’m not upside down on that and I haven’t missed any payments yet). And I have student loans. And since I’m a web developer, I have things like domains and hosting to pay for every month for all my personal projects. Let’s look things over, shall we?

My Financials (are a problem)

All of the cash in my bank accounts (including a $1,000 emergency fund) add up to: $2,408.76… yippee! But I owe $4,011.89 to my car loan, and $1,633.16 on my credit card. Hmm. Not so great. My monthly obligations are as follows:

  • Student loans: $150
  • Cell phone: $50
  • Rent: $250
  • Web costs: $75
  • Car Payment: $188
  • Auto Insurance: $140

Here, I’ll do the math for you. Without even including other changing expenses like food, clothing, “fun money” or extra debt payments… that’s about $855 in monthly commitments.

Sure, things like “Rent” won’t actually be rent once I’m on the road, but instead money for gas, storage for things left behind, paying my family for cat care, etc… “Rent” will probably look more like $300+. I won’t have room to be picky, but I’m still trying to make money doing things that I actually enjoy doing. Right now that includes WordPress plugin development, and selling silly songs on Fiverr.

Overall regular income right now? A whopping $220 a month. The math doesn’t add up right now, which is a problem. I’ve taken a few side gigs (photography and web development) and sold a few personal belongings to make ends meet in the meantime, but something will have to change. Something tells me we’ll never be quite as secure as we’d like.

The Solution (is to be optimistic)

As it stands, I can’t reduce my bills any further. I’ll need to find extra income. Here’s a few of my game plans:

  1. Idea #1: Get the Road Trip Sponsored – Immediate Income Likelihood: Low. I’m doing this road trip with my best friend. We’re going to be blogging, making videos and sharing our adventures for anyone who wants to live vicariously through us. That’s also a great opportunity for anyone who wants to support our adventure and get their brand talked about in association with general awesomeness and the message that you can live the way you want to (…even in this economy). Income Potential: Depending on who eventually sponsors us, this could be anything from donated cameras, to a gas budget, to complete travel expenses covered.
  2. Idea #2: Sell Road Trip Merchandise – Immediate Income Likelihood: Low. Along the idea of monetizing the actual road trip, we’re going to brand ourselves. We’re both writers and creative types. People might be interested in buying what we produce. Obviously, we’ll mostly be putting out free stuff (like the blog and videos), but who’s to say people don’t want a sweatshirt with my face on it? Or you know, at least some funny picture I draw. Income Potential: Realistically, I’d expect that we could eventually bring in $200 – $300 through merchandise per month. It depends on how big or fanatical of an audience we draw, and how creative we get with merchandise ideas.
  3. Idea #3: Become a YouTube Partner - Immediate Income Likelihood: Low – Ultimately, I want to be a YouTube Partner. I already publish entertaining videos on my personal channel under the alias “Terribly Serious”, but YouTube is also where we’ll be sharing our travel videos. Both channels have a chance to become a YouTube Partner, which essentially allows us to make money just by sharing videos. Pretty cool, huh? From what I understand, you need at least 1,000 subscribers to be taken seriously by YouTube and subsequently get invited as a Partner. We can’t count on that right away. (But you can help by subscribing to us of course ;)) Income Potential: No idea.
  4. Idea #4: Premium WordPress Solutions - Immediate Income Likelihood: Not Bad – This idea is already in the works, and slowly growing. I’m going to continue focusing on developing premium WordPress themes and plugins. The more solutions I produce, the wider opportunity for income I have! Income Potential: Currently at about $120 per month.
  5. Idea #5: Web Development Clients - Immediate Income Likelihood: Good – My goal is to develop and maintain products, but until that takes off I can start accepting clients for web development work again. Income Potential: Anywhere starting from $1,000+ per month depending on length of projects and the budget of my clients and how many clients I’m willing to take.
  6. Idea #6: Launching An Online Business - Immediate Income Likelihood: Low… but after 2-3 months, Very Good – I’m launching a business with a couple of awesome partners sometime in the beginning of 2012. Until it’s out, it’s top-secret, mostly because I’m not sure what I’m allowed to say. Income Potential: Enough to retire. Or you know, enough to not really worry about employment for a while.

Until then… other income supplements I’ll be looking at:

  • Offering services to friends and family with “suggested donations” to support the trip (Within 15 minutes of posting a Facebook status offering a list of services I would offer with suggested donations to support the trip, I got $50. Not bad.)
  • Mini services with Fiverr – which you’ve already read about doing on Budgets Are Sexy (This brings about $80+ per month for me with my current gig.)
  • Passive income through Google AdSense (I’ve made $100 annually before, but never took this project seriously.)
  • Passive income through selling random designs on Zazzle products (I make about $20 every 6 months or so, but never took this project seriously.)
  • Getting hired as a blogger (I… don’t know how much this pays.)
  • Putting on business web seminars in the cities we visit (Would probably start at around $500+ profits per speaking event. I have an event manager who I’ve helped out in the past and is willing to coordinate that sort of thing for me free of charge.)
  • Becoming so influential that people are constantly sending me free things, donating to my causes, and hiring me out of nowhere ;) (Priceless.)

Hint: If you’re ever in need of any of my services (from blogging to writing a song, to design & development and more) just hit me up over at anne@girlsbetrippin.com - mention you heard of me from Budgets Are Sexy to get the appropriate J$ discount! We also appreciate moral support and new friends, so please, reach out and just say hello if you think what we’re doing is awesome!

Keeping You (in the loop!)

I’ve done an awful lot of talking about how we’ll be blogging and posting videos, and I’m planning for part of that to include keeping you in the loop on our financials. If you’re interested in following us, you can do so at GirlsBeTrippin.com! (Don’t forget to subscribe to new posts on the right side of the site.)

At the end of the day this, is a high risk/high reward type of situation. We may end up crashing and burning on the financial side of things, but I think that you can’t do what you really want until you’re willing to put everything on the line to achieve it. That alone makes it worth it to me. Because whatever happens, I know that I did everything in my power to do things the way I think they should be done.

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Anne Dorko is a do-everything, take-life-by-the-horns, big-idea kinda gal (you just can’t put her in a box). Her professional side involves helping small business owners get their businesses online (started at this one site, but is currently moving to this other site). Her… less professional side involves posting awesome videos and sharing her thoughts in 140 characters or less.

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Does America Hate Money?

by J. Money on Wednesday, January 25, 2012

hair dryer gun to head

That was the subject line of an email a reader just sent in ;)  At 3:30 a.m.  Haha… I think he was bit perturbed. Here’s the rest of the email below:

I just opened my hotel bill today and I was shocked to see all the added taxes that were added on my bill.  Now I was a little upset at that.  Not because of paying more money, but I felt that I was being deceived.  What ever happened to: “It costs $5″ “okay” *passes $5* “have a great day!”

Nowadays, it is no longer airlines who are not adding random fees on top.  In a way of promoting their product above the others, it seems that the “price” is just an arbitrary number for a variety of different industries (especially the mortgage industry).  Then they add shipping & handling, sales tax, dog tax, breathing tax, and come out with a final cost.

I’d really like to see if people have noticed the same thing I do.  Are we so ashamed of seeing cost, that we often let the seller dictate what its worth?  Is anyone else willing to provide stories/examples of this?

I’d really like to hear from people who are about to sign a mortgage, and see a bunch of “admin fees” tacked on.  Thanks for listening to my 3:30am rant.

And here was my response (not at 3:30 am):

Haha, nice.  And so true – there’s taxes all over the dang place.  I mean, I guess most of it helps us in the long run, but I agree it would be nice to know UPFRONT what, exactly, the cost is for the stuff we buy.  Would make life a lot more interesting.  And in fact, maybe it would make people NOT buy as many things too!  Which would be great for us, but not so much the economy… so maybe that’s why the complete costs are hidden? ;)

What do you guys think?  Are you tired of getting nickeled and dimed all over the place, or have you come to terms with the way it is?  Our good friend above is dying to know!

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(Photo by xJason.Rogersx)

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What If We Only Invested in Companies We Loved?

by J. Money on Tuesday, January 24, 2012

love sparrow tattoo

I’ve been thinking long and hard about this idea lately, and I REALLY think there’s something to it.  And I’m pretty sure I’ve heard a famous investor, or financial guru, or somebody well-respected once say it’s a great theory to adhere to also.  I mean, it makes sense, right? Investing in companies you already support as a consumer? Like, say, Coke or Starbucks or any of those other awesome places like TJ Maxx?  I’m already giving them all my money anyways, might as well get a return on them too! Haha…

I know some of you are already doing this – don’t be shy;)  I’m totally tempted to try it out myself with this year’s SEP IRA investments. I think I’ll have around $23,000 to invest (to avoid paying more 2011 taxes!), and I’d LOVE it if all the stocks I threw in there where simply companies I rave about all the time.  Especially since the bulk of my investments are already in smarter and more boring funds anyways, haha… so it wouldn’t be TOO much of a risk to try, right? ;) Keeping most your stuff safe and sound, and playing more loosely with a separate smaller account? I don’t know if it would perform better or worse in the long run, but I could certainly justify finding out.

While this route is definitely more emotional than it is rational, and good companies DO die out all the time or get slammed when they do something stupid (*ahem* Netflix), I think there’s something to be said about putting your money where you’re already actually putting it.  Be proud of the stocks you own, ya know?

Here – let’s make a list of a whole bunch of brands that I love and see if they’re even investable (word?).  If they are, I’ll add ‘em to my consideration list for when it’s time to place the bets. Errrr… investments.

  1. USAA — NO :(  Though, it’s probably best cuz if it were I’m sure we woudn’t get as many awesome benefits as we do now.  But still sucks I can’t invest in it like I would.
  2. Diet Coke — Yup!  Well, with its parent company: Coca-Cola. Symbol: KO – And I actually already own some of these thanks to Warren Buffett inspiring me to do so years ago ;)
  3. Target — Yup!  And I’m pretty sure I visited them at *least* 4 times last week… you’ll know why, in a bit. Symbol: TGT
  4. TJ Maxx — YES!!  Again, with its parent company (who also own rock stars like Marshalls and HomeGoods) Stock ticker: TJX
  5. Go Daddy — Nope.  Though I can make money off their affiliate program when I pimp them out ;)  I have no shame in getting paid if others happen to use them because of me – I love their products!
  6. Starbucks — Yup!  Symbol: SBUX
  7. Google — Of course ;)  Symbol: GOOG – though WOW is it expensive at over $580!
  8. Twitter — Nope.  Though not really sure how they’re making money anyways…
  9. Panera Bread — Bingo!  Symbol: PNRA
  10. Amazon — You know it!  But do you have $180 to spare? Symbol: AMZN

I could go on and on, but I think you get the point.  It’s very easy to invest in places you believe in and/or use a lot.  And chances are if YOU love ‘em so much, so do thousands and millions of others – regardless of the company’s management or financial balance sheets (though very VERY important, of course – remember what happened to Borders? *tear*).   So there’s def. some huge risks involved going this route than sticking w/ those companies with solid business experience over dozens and dozens of years.  Though, in many cases, some of the companies you like ALSO fall under these investments people trust a lot too! Those biggies like Coke and Apple and AT&T even – they’re always staple stocks in many people’s portfolios. So perhaps the middle ground here is finding these companies that you adore AND have awesome track records, over some of the newer or less-proven ones yet?

I dunno… but either way we’re gonna find out soon ;)  I’m hoping to get some more thought on this from you all though first, to see if anyone’s tested a lot of this out already.  If you have, will you do me a favor and share your experiences with us so far?  Did you do better than the average market with this strategy? I’d love to see how it compares with the other kinds of investing out there – and even more so *what* the companies or brands you believe in are too;)  I’m voyeuristic like that!

I’ll let you know once the trades are in progress, and what I end up picking up.  It’s exciting to think about, that’s for sure!  I love the idea of loving all my stocks, and not just getting them because they’re solid investments… who knows how many companies I own parts of that do something dirty or immoral or just totally something I have no idea about, ya know?  I mean, that sounds bad to say – that I don’t *know* all my companies or funds I invest in – but that’s why I use advisers like my friends at USAA, or I copy masters like Warren Buffett ;)  I may not know what the hell I’m doing, but you better believe they do!  Haha… and in this given point of my life, I’m okay with that.  I trust them to do a better job than myself who (obviously) goes on emotion with this type of stuff. It may not work for everyone, but so far I really can’t complain w/ my results ;)

So yeah – stay tuned!  I should be poking my hands into my favorite companies soon enough… another fun experiment to try!

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PS: Legal tells me to say this: Just like all my theories or trial runs, I don’t advise others doing the same unless they know what they’re getting into.  I like to take risks and  have more fun w/ my stuff than the average person, so please don’t take all this as advice! It’s just me talking out loud and putting other perspectives out there :)

PPS: Speaking of all my trial runs, remember the Ultimate IRA Test?  So far the non-actively traded account is still in the lead!

(Photo by lydiashiningbrightly)

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3 Awesome Challenges to Try This Year

by J. Money on Monday, January 23, 2012

do it post-it noteOne of things I love about Januarys, is that the goals and missions all over the place blow up and motivate people.  I think that’s awesome (and really the only cool thing about January – it’s so bland!). The problem, of course, is that usually this passion and excitement dies out after a few weeks. But those rock stars that stay on top it, and continue pushing forward, are very handsomely rewarded!

I don’t know which side of the fence you’re currently on, but I’m gonna assume you’re one of the rock stars ;)  And since only awesome people read this blog, I thought I’d list a few of the different challenges going around the blogosphere this month in case any of ‘em seem enticing to you too. Maybe it’s time to take on a new one?

The $3k Blog Challenge

One of my friends, Edward, is shooting for a goal of $3,000 earned through blogging this year, and is encouraging others to join him on this mission in hopes a community will keep everyone on track.  And as a prize for the one who reaches it first, he’s dangling a $50 Visa card in front of the racers (no word on whether you can *include* this in your $3k total or not ;)).  There are some rules you have to stick with – like not having a huge blog where this is easily achieved – but for the most part it’s pretty straight forward.  If you blog, and you like money, why not try making some from it? (More info here)

The No-Spend Challenge

This one I like a LOT because I have done this myself, over Lent one year, and it literally changed my spending patterns. I went from spending HUNDREDS of dollars a month on random things I didn’t really need much, to SAVING hundreds of dollars over time. I can’t remember the exact numbers off hand, but I wanna say I’ve saved a good $400/mo ever since.  I’m not joking – it was by far one of the best things I could have ever done, and it wasn’t easy :)

Here’s Kristina’s plan. I’m sure she’d love some others joining her!

“I decided to try a 6 month ban on my personal spending of all non essential items. I am going to learn to live on less and not spend any money on clothes, bath and beauty products, perfume, music, DVDs, movies, or Wii Games.  Essential items for the household and daily living necessities such as groceries are definitely ok, but for the next 6 months I am going to live without any luxuries…I am hoping that my 6 month personal spending ban lowers my weekly spending to $150 per week. “

If it helps, read my “4 stages you’ll encounter during a no-spend challenge” post first.  It may be hard in the beginning, but it’s definitely worth it in the end!

The 2012 Personal Finance Challenge

Now this one’s a whopper.  Created by Aaron of Three Thrifty Guys, his mission is to complete 10 specific goals in the new year – with a checklist to print off and everything.  He def. gets points for creativity :)  Some of these you may have already completed, but I *highly* advise checking it out to at least see the different kinds of areas this helps with.  Personal finance is way more than just savings and debt, and sometimes we forget about the more boring (in my opinion) portions.  Like insurance.

Here are a handful of the more specific goals in case you’re not too lazy to click over ;)  How many have you already done?  How many are you already working on?

  1. Create a $1k Emergency Fund
  2. Read a Book on Personal Finance
  3. Cut Your Debt by 5% or More
  4. Start a File For Your 2012 Taxes
  5. Complete a DIY (Do-it-yourself) Project

If you’re looking for a good kick in the pants, consider this it and sign up to his challenge.  You can’t lose anything! (And I think he’s giving away a prize at the end too. Though you shouldn’t be motivated by that, you gotta really WANT THIS to make it happen!)

I feel like I saw more challenges being passed around too, but I think these are good for now. 
At some point it just all becomes overwhelming :)  And plus – I’m sure you guys are already working on some pretty good goals, yeah?  Have any you’d like to share with us today?  Maybe we’ll join you in them!

Regardless though, keep pushing yourself to achieve greatness.  It’s not always easy getting started, or making it to the end for that matter, but at the end of the day it all goes to improve your lifestyle.  And as much happiness as you can squeeze out of all these goals, the better :)

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(Photo by Amy Loves Yah)

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Growing Beards and Saving Monies

by J. Money on Friday, January 20, 2012

crazy beards

Two weeks ago I decided that I was gonna start growing a beard for the first time in my life.  At first it was just cuz I was being lazy and enjoying the newly found freedom of having less projects on my plate, but after a few days of missing my “shave time,” I decided to just go for the gold.  I have no idea how long it’ll last, or how LONG I can even grow out the crazy thing, but I’ve always wanted to see what would happen so we’re giving it a shot :)  And who knows, maybe I’ll end up looking like Santa Claus! (Only hopefully not that white)

But the reason for me telling you all this, besides the fact I just wanted to share my new mission with you!, is that it reminded me a lot of growing our money.  Kinda like my mohawk post on the economy, here are a few ways producing a beard is like saving money.  Would you agree?

  1. Both are easy to start, but hard to continue.  Every day for 15+ years my beard “started” – only I shaved it back off every 4 or 5 days.  And almost every day during that same time I put away a couple dollars here, or a couple dollars there.  That was totally easy.  But continuing with it?  Reminding yourself every day to KEEP GOING cuz the end game is much bigger than all the days before it?  Super hard.  It’s sinking in more as time goes on *now*, of course, but it took a lot of hard work and patience.
  2. Both take patience.  Money doesn’t grow to a million dollars on day 1 – it takes thousands of days.  Same with this crazy mat of hair on my face.  It’s only been about 4 weeks, but it’s JUST now starting to resemble something other than a 5 o’clock shadow on there.  And I’m sure it’ll be doubly long in another 4 weeks!  But I gotta keep on being patient and working towards it for it to continue to grow.  Same with your money, or cutting out debt, etc. It all happens over time.
  3. Both take hard work!  Okay, well, maybe not the beard – that’s one thing in life that just “happens” without an ounce of work, but certainly w/ the money ;)  You have to consciously remind yourself to stay on top of it all or it’ll get trampled over like it always has in the past.  Working on it one week is great, but if you don’t push more and more and pay attention *every* week, odds are it won’t grow as fast as you had hoped.  It doesn’t mean you have to go all 24/7 or anything, but you do have to be more aware than in your non-caring days. And sometimes that means going without some *wants* here and there.  It never kills us to skip over some stuff every now and then.
  4. And lastly, both itch :)  My face, more literally, and my desire to save, more figuratively.  But with either you have to WANT IT BAD to make it happen.  There are pros and cons to each (The beard drives me crazy (it’s SO ITCHY!!) and makes me look like a vagabond, and the savings means I have to go without in other areas), but the end goal is more important to me in the long run.  At least for now – that beard might have to go if the Mrs. gets tired of being scratched all the time ;)

So the moral of the story is that if you want to become a millionaire one day, you have to start growing a beard.  Haha… or just work your ass off and remain true to your goal ;) I’d normally interject a question here relating to money, but instead I’d like to ask you your opinions on facial hair.

Happy Friday!

Guys:  What’s the longest you’ve ever grown your beard? Did you enjoy it in the end?
Gals:  What do you think about facial hair on men? Do you like it?  What do you prefer the most? (goatees, mustaches, beards, etc?) I know y’all love some Brad Pitt and Ryan Gosling, both of whom rock some mighty fine stubble every now and then.

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(Crazy beards by Ayleen Gaspar)

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Weekly Roundup: Demons, Bloggers & Mushroom Homes

by J. Money on Friday, January 20, 2012

Hey guys!  Welcome to another lovely weekly round-up, courtesy of J. Money and the best day of the week: Friday.  Please to enjoy all articles and blog posts that caught my attention this week:

First, a new (to me) blog I’ve been following that I think you might like:

Mr. Money Mustache (haha… awesome, right?): I’m really diggin’ the way this guy writes – and lives – and he offers up a lot of viewpoints I think many of you could learn from.  Especially those who want to retire early and are more extreme.  If any of you read Jacob’s Early Retirement Extreme blog (which has since ended), you’ll know that he passed the torch onto Mr. Money Mustache himself.  Here’s a brief history on how he went from $0.00 to Retirement in 9 years. Pretty cool stuff.

Other fave reads this week:

  1. How to Fight Your Financial Demons @ Savvy Sugar
  2. Inspiration: Millionaire Teacher @ Afford Anything
  3. Man vs. Debt 2011 Income Expense Report @ Man vs. Debt
  4. Google Walks Its Talk and Penalizes Itself @ Daily Blog Tips
  5. How Vonage saved me money overseas @ Clever Dude
  6. Mushroom House for Buyer with Exotic Taste @ Extravaganzi
  7. Entrepreneurship and College – Is Dropping Out the Right Choice? @ Nick Reese
  8. List of Personal Finance Blogs that have Sold for $1 Million or More @ Dough Roller
  9. 2012: The Year of Mastering The Game Being Played Around You @ I Will Teach You To Be Rich
  10. Suze Orman Calls Personal Finance Bloggers Idiots @ 20 And Engaged  (In case you missed it!!)

 

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Stop Buying Stuff – Start Refurbishing!

by J. Money on Thursday, January 19, 2012

bicycle couch

(Guest Post by Adria Saracino, a pretty sweet personal *fashion* blogger ;))

I used to buy a lot of $hit.

A self-proclaimed shopaholic, I was addicted to spending an insane amount of money. My poisons of choice? Fashion and home décor.

Budgets weren’t really an option in my mind. I’d look at my bank account, see it wasn’t negative, and say “let’s do this” to every piece of fashion and home accessory I saw. If I didn’t have the money I would put it on my credit card and vow to pay it off on my next paycheck.

That rarely happened. Rather, I’d pay some of the bills off just to justify buying even more the next time around. I rewarded my payments with buying more. It was an endless cycle I knew was destructive, but I couldn’t stop.

It wasn’t until I was thousands of dollars in the hole that it really hit me. I had the opportunity to go on a Vegas trip with my friends, but I had to sit out because I couldn’t afford it.

I’d never really been the type to hold myself back from fun, so when I had to out of necessity, I knew it was time to change. Especially because I was in the midst of moving to a new apartment, I knew there’d be a lot of temptations to buy new home décor items.

So I got my $hit together. However, I needed more than just a vow to spend less. I needed a way to fill that void of owning something new, or else I knew my new habits would never stick.

Thus, I turned to refurbishing things.

From creating new garments from thrift store finds to turning an old snowboard into a bench, I became addicted to refurbishing items into new and interesting ways. It did more than fill the void of owning more stuff, it made me feel better because I actually made this shiny new piece of wonderfulness.

Now, I create new pieces all the time. I’m constantly researching new ways to repurpose old items. It’s become somewhat of a new addiction. Since I think about it all the time, I thought I’d share some of the more interesting ways I’ve seen others repurpose pieces into new treasures. I’ll also share a few ideas of my own that I’ve either done already, or plan to do in the future.

Hopefully this will help all the other shopaholics out there buy less stuff and create a new item that you can proudly say is a one of a kind.

1. Create a new lamp out of anything

I am convinced you can create a new lamp out of just about any type of material, and when won’t you need more lighting? A room’s lighting can really set the tone of a space, and the possibilities are endless.

diy lamp

You can create a lamp out of an old washing machine drum and pulley wheels, an idea I saw over at PartSelect Appliances in this article, which also outlined other ways to reuse appliances. You can even make a lamp out of photo negatives, as seen in the photo above taken by Aleksi Pihkanen. Really, if you can think of a material, you can most likely use it in some way to create a new lamp.

2. Reupholster using old clothes

Clothes = fabric. Fabric + old piece of furniture = newly upholstered piece. Use an old piece of clothing you don’t like anymore to reupholster a piece of furniture, such as a bench cushion. Items that are flat and lack hardware are best, such as a women’s pencil skirt.

3. Utilize old wine corks

I currently save all my wine corks and put them into a large vase as a focal point for my mantel. Another great idea is to use corks as a rustic corkboard, as seen in the photo below taken by Andrew Smith.

wine corkboard

4. Reuse old dryer sheets

After using a dryer sheet, toss them into your drawers to act as a just-out-of-the-wash air freshener.

5. Create mosaic tiles out of glass bottles

What else gives you an excuse to smash bottles without looking like you need anger management? Reuse glass bottles to create beautiful mosaic tiles for garden walkways or pieces of art, such as seen in the photo below taken by Bridgeman Pottery.

mosaic tile

6. Turn an old circuit board into a coaster

You don’t have to stop at a coaster. Circuit boards are essentially a large piece of flat material, so you can make it into anything. I saw some really awesome ideas in this article by PC Mag, ranging from coasters to mouse pads.

There are many other ways to reuse common household items to create unique home and fashion accessories. For more ideas check out this article or this one. No matter what the item, always ask yourself if you could turn it into something else before throwing it away.

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Adria Saracino is a food, fashion, and home décor enthusiast. You can see her blogging about Seattle style at her personal fashion blog, The Emerald Closet.

(Hilarious photo by falling_james)

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Help a Reader: “My Husband and I Spend Differently!”

by J. Money on Wednesday, January 18, 2012

kiss on cheek

I think a lot of you may be able to relate to this one ;)  I know I’ve dated plenty of people in my past who spent, or saved, differently than myself at the time.  It never got to a point where it made a difference (cuz we of course split up), but when you’re married it’s a tooooooootally different ball game.  And hopefully everyone knew about their significant others’ habits too before tying that knot! If  not, that’s a whole other blog post, haha… and sadly not that rare.

But anyways, today let’s help out a fellow reader of the site and see if we can help steer her in the right direction.  I know we all  have different ways that work for us, but maybe one of them will click for her?  Getting new perspectives always helps :)  Here’s her concerns:

Hi J$,

I need some advice on dealing with finances with my husband. We’ve been married for a year now, and we still have issues with finances. We have different styles when it comes to money that don’t seem to mesh.

I’m a saver. I always tell him when I make purchases or if I pay more money on balances we owe (which isn’t a lot as a young married couple… we have $5,000 in credit card debt and my student loans don’t kick in for another year). I try to make good financial decisions and read all the time about making good decisions with money.

He, on the other hand, is a big spender. He doesn’t always tell me he has made a purchase; I usually find it on our joint checking account later and have to confront him, which I hate doing. He spends often on himself, buying clothes he wants or things he thinks he “needs,” and doesn’t really seem to think long-term or that I might want or need things, too.

I try really hard to talk to him about money, but it can be challenging. I want to make a plan that we stick to, but have a hard time knowing how to approach him with it. We want to buy a house rather than living with family eventually, but with the rate he likes to spend on himself, I don’t know if it will happen.

What should I do?

Yikes! One thing I will say that REALLY helps us out a lot (I tend to splurge more than the Mrs, if you can believe that), is that we have our own separate “do as we please” funds set up.  That only we can touch and do with however we want – no questions asked. It’s not a lot of money (unless you just save it up for whatever), but it REALLY gives you that freedom that spenders like to have sometimes.  And it’s only a side account, so you still have your major combined accounts to pay for a new home, or food, or just life in general.  Some people say they don’t like it cuz it’s kinda “secretive,” but if both people are on board, and it helps him to continue to be free while relieving you of some stress (and nagging him), it may be worth a shot ;)  Even if you just xfer in $100 a month or something like that – the ability to spend w/out being judged could do wonders!

I also think some good communication is needed too  – that’s the base of *everything* in a marriage, which I’m sure you’ll agree. The trick is figuring out a way to talk about things easier (maybe w/ a glass of wine? Or 5? Haha…), and then consistently working at it.  It would actually help squash a lot of OTHER problems too that may come up – or maybe money’s the one thing y’all really struggle with? Either way, that’s my 2 cents – I’m sure the others will have a lot to chime in about ;)

What do you think, guys?  Have you been in this spot before? Have you figured out something that works? Help a friend out! :)

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(Photo by laughlin)

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