Are you pleased with it? Horrified? Don’t even want to know so you’re going to click away now? ;)
Let’s do an exercise today where we look back at what we spent this week and see how we feel about it all… It’s good to do a surprise check-in every now and then!
Fill in the blanks below:
- Money I loved spending this week: _____________
- Money I hated spending this week: _____________
- Money I was surprised to spend this week! _____________
- Money I knew I’d spend this week and am okay with: _____________
- Money I spent towards my goals/dreams: _____________
Here’s how my week unfolded:
Money I loved spending this week: $147 @ TJ Maxx! For my once-a-year shopping binge where I can escape long enough to try on some clothes without a million babies in tow… I forgot how easy life was before those guys! Haha…
Money I hated spending this week: $280 for exhaust work on my wife’s car, ugh… Although I’ll gladly take $280 every now and then vs $280 every month as car payments! It would have been a double sting!
Money I was surprised to spend this week: $300. For apparently forgetting to file my business’ property tax last year – woops… My accountant used to do it for me, but then she switched her policies and either never told me about it or I just completely forgot…. and odds are I just completely forgot ;)
Money I knew I’d spend this week and am okay with: $16 for my daily coffee/bagel (I.e. “office rent” at Panera Bread!)
Money I spent towards my goals/dreams: $28’ish on fruit! For my attempt at getting my kids and I to eat more of it every day instead of snacking all the time! Last week we tried mandarins, kiwis, grapefruit, avocados, cantaloupe, mango, pomegranate, and almonds (not a fruit, but still good for you!), and this week we tried a papaya, baby watermelon, lemons, grape tomatoes, and then more of the previous items we enjoyed more than the others.
Pics of our hoards are below, which is surprisingly going super well! My oldest is now obsessed with kiwis, and my other son can’t get enough apples… Which is strange since they weren’t even a part of our experiment, but hey – I’ll take it! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
- 21 mandarins
- 5 kiwis
- 3 grapefruit
- 2 avocados
- 1 cantaloupe
- 1 mango
- 1 pineapple
- 1 pomegranate
- Bag of raw unsalted almonds
- 22 mandarins
- 10 grapefruit
- 8 baby pears
- 4 kiwis
- 1 papaya
- 1 baby watermelon
- Bag of lemons (couldn’t buy just one?)
- Box of grape tomatoes
[A trick I learned, btw, was to make healthy snacks more *ACCESSIBLE* for better odds of everyone eating them all. So we placed the fruit smack in the center of a bowl on our kitchen table and it’s been working like a charm! 👍]
So that was my week! A bunch of bigger unexpected costs, but at least mixed in with some fun smaller ones!
Definitely spent way more than we typically do in a given week ($771 in total – which doesn’t even account for the normal stuff like bills, etc!), but seeing how a chunk of this wasn’t even in our control – and we didn’t go into debt for it! – I’ll take it as a half-win ;) It was definitely more of an adventures week than normal, which is probably why this post idea even popped in my head, haha…
Your turn now! Fill in the 5 blanks up there and see how you feel about it…
If you’re not too happy about things, challenge yourself to do better next week! And maybe even put it on the calendar/journal to do *every* Friday for a while? Can never hurt spot-checking yourself every now and then! (Hubba hubba)
Jay loves talking about money, collecting coins, blasting hip-hop, and hanging out with his three beautiful boys. You can check out all of his online projects at jmoney.biz. Thanks for reading the blog!